A Story – The Nail In The Fence shows how a word can never be taken back once it has been uttered.
NAIL IN THE FENCE
There once was a little boy who had a bad
temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails
and told him that every time he lost his
temper, he must hammer a nail into the back
of the fence. The first day the boy had
driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next
few weeks, as he learned to control his
anger, the number of nails hammered daily
gradually dwindled down. He discovered
it was easier to hold his temper than to
drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy didn’t
lose his temper at all. He told his father
about it and the father suggested that the
boy now pull out one nail for each day that
he was able to hold his temper.
The days passed and the young boy was finally
able to tell his father that all the nails
were gone. The father took his son by the
hand and led him to the fence. He said, “You
have done well, my son, but look at the
holes in the fence. The fence will never be
the same. When you say things in anger,
they leave a scar just like this one. You
can put a knife in a man and draw it out.
It won’t matter how many times you say I’m
sorry, the wound is still there. ”
A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.
I can’t think of a better word picture than A Story – The Nail In The Fence to explain what bad words can do to a person. You can never “unsay” the words even though you may be terribly sorry you ever said them.
This is why the Bible has some stern words to say about controlling your tongue, and how much damage you can do with words.
Bad words can sink into your spirit and destroy it little by little if you allow them to take hold. Don’t be responsible for doing that to another person.
